DEPRESSION REMEDY IN MARITAL LIFE
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We are here to terminate this sickness known as Depression. In psychotherapy and psychiatry, a state of mind producing serious long term of inability to visualize happy moment or future. After this you get to practice this steps and stay strong mentally. This situation known as depression just don't pop up all a sudden, it comes gradually by inflammation of hard time or pressure from your partner. When someone is been deprived of what keep them steady and happy, then this depression grow bit by bit. For example; Some men has form the habit of depriving their wives from doing certain activities. Like, working or becoming self employed, even to own a business. These act are so appalling. As a man, decisions has to be made between both spouse. Keeping her as a housewife will do no good to the marriage, family and even to your source of living. Most men are over protective of their wife... Due to act of mistrust. Some women brought such situation to themselves by practicing suspicious activities such as, late night entrance, strange calls and receiving strange gifts, like "undies." Such act will lead to immediate band from communicating with outsiders. Having a male friend is not prohibited, but it should be limited to certain length. When you know your partner is the type that has trust issues, then do not make yourself suspect in several occasions. But as the case might be, they are a lot of women suffering from depression out there, due to difficulties of life or hard time from their patterns. When a man keep check of their wife every moment, calling every minutes of the day. Some follow their wife to market, saloon, shopping, even at school runs. This actions are typically wrong. Give her breathing space. Men should seize from all this practices. Trying to prove you can dominate her will only lead to divorce. Every woman wants to be treated as a queen and not a maid. Set aside your jealous and give her room to exercise herself.
REMEDY
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ROUTINE WORK
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Allowing her to do what she set her heart on, Be it self employed or getting actual job. What she desire to do matters, all you should do as the man is to support and encourage her. Do not tell her," To stay at home, that you are capable to provide for the family." You are only making her a liability and she can get depressed and have weird thoughts when staying at home. Especially when she sees her fellow women that has freedom to handle things for their man. It put them in a dangerous situation to react negatively.
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GET YOURSELF OCCUPIED
As a woman that the man order sometimes, do not get yourself into the depression state, rather do what you love the most like your hobbies. Some love to read,TV shows or social media. Make sure you get yourself occupied and never get yourself idle, because it is a ticket to depression.
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INVITE FRIENDS
When she stays idle, you as the man ought to know when she needs attention, then allow her to invite her friends for visit, in holiday or just for middle season on a long terms company. Before she get something doing, it should be your priority as the man to urge her to be resourceful for herself. Allow her to enjoy every moment with you and friends. As they said," The water is always neat and fresh in front of an hippo." Means you should bury anything from the past, if she has done something that warrant you from depriving her from inviting her friends over, all you need is to sort it out and move on. Never detain her as a prisoner.
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BOOK FOR VACATION
Book for vacation and set your mind at peace. Men should be able to check up on their wife, you should predict her mood and know when to intervene. Take her out for live show or vacation. If you get too busy, she can go and enjoy her moment... Once there is trust, marriage stand the chance to last longer. Do not be strict, allow her to express the power as a wife. If she accept you from other men she met, then you should treat her right. All this can subside depression and set you on the right path.
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