HAVING A FLIRT AS A PARTNER

HAVING A FLIRT AS A PARTNER

 

The issue of having a partner that have the mindset of coquetry or flirting with other women in  marriage is becoming a serious case all over the world. We see this case of  men and women cheat in their love life. But most especially it comes from men. If I should rate, few women are faithful once they choose a man they want to spend their life time with... In this state of marriage, about many men can't be with just one woman, that is if I am to rate. And it is causing a lot of destruction to many married homes. Having a romantic feelings outside marriage is disproved in some part of the world. But the question is; 'Why do some men cheat? which still remain a mystery to many. But if you ask me why. I will tell you it is natural. We human have different sense of reasoning. But today when should look at how we can try to minimize the number of such case. Some women said; they can handle it when they man cheat on them, and i asked; is it that they don't love their man?. The answer is No, they do love him, but don't want the  issue to escalate more and lead to divorce. Divorce is never a solution to such case. Some form the habit of cheating when they were just dating in their younger age. If you notice your man is the type before marriage, then break up with him. It is better to be safe than sorry.  Sometimes praying helps to reshape the man's thinking. Join him in something he enjoys most. Try and create a big connection with him, then try as much as you can to keep up. This case is so difficult in marriage, but just don't stop trying. The case of woman sleeping with married men is also something so difficult to understand.

 THINGS YOU SHOULD GIVE A TRY, ON HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN FROM LOOKING OUTSIDE 

TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL

When you notice he cheats don't approach him with the anger you felt. Having a flirt doesn't mean he is not considerate. Telling him how you feel and ask him what you should do to keep him to yourself. Some men love to see if their wife will react when he meet another woman. Remember is not all men that will seat and listen to you when you try to talk him out of it, but try and show concern. Let him know you forgive him and that you are not happy about the situation at hand. Be honest, open up and then negotiate a solution to it.

PRAY ON HIS BEHALF

Not all men can change just with words, you need to commit him in prayer. Go beyond and see the power of faith. When you go deep in praying, i believe you will restore him from the part of which he follows. Cultivating your family with prayer. It will give you Joy, peace, faithfulness and love. Try to seek help from above.

BE ATTRACTIVE AS YOU WERE WHEN HE FOUND YOU FIRST

Dress well for him. Some woman don't fancy dressing attractive once they are married. They dress well only when they want to hangout with their friend to a ceremony, but they don't care how they look when they are with their man. When you dress attractive it draws attention to you. Let your dress makes him ask for more of you and  not to dress like a house maid.

  

MAKE HIM HAPPY IN BED

If he goes out because you don't agree to make love to him as much as he wants, then you should make him beg in bed. I mean, Try and take him how ever he wants. If he wants sex everyday give him that. He will surely give up on it's own. Don't deprive him his right, Or give excuses whenever he ask for it.

                                                  

  SEE A COUNSELOR 

If he agrees go with you to see a counselor, that shows he has interest to stop. When you two are there, let him know what his actions is doing in your life and there he should swear to keep out from his mistresses. Some men can be stubborn, but try and convince him.